Too old for DIY
Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2026 9:50 am
I have been beating my head against this problem for some years now but now it is becoming critical.
I am fairly certain most of you have noticed how hard it is to get a French tradesman to do any work. This ranges from actually responding to a request for a devis to actually turning up to do the work within a year of agreeing to do it.
Has anyone found a way to break into the system and get a timely result? I gave up years ago trying to get French professional help, and then tried expat British as an alternative. Mixed results somewhere between poor and competent at mostly exhorbitant prices. Happily I have been healthy enough to say "nuts to it" and do it myself. More recently as I get older and my physical state deteriorates I find I am back at the mercy of outside help. I can no longer lift a bag of cement and sudden twinges of pain and occasional dizzyness makes it a fools errand going up a ladder to fix a leaky roof.
My most recent experience has been with a stonemason and a plumber. Both expats who were reasonable and turned out to be highly skilled. I gave them both a clearly defined list of things I wanted done and they both came when promised and did one thing on the list. Then didn't return to finish. One said he was too busy just at the moment and I have gently reminded him a couple of times. Pretty much the same story with the plumber, who fixed one leak leaving two more leaks unfixed. I have been waiting over two months now.
What is the secret of how to get help? Do I get back in touch offering them double their hourly rate? Do I ask for recommendation of someone else to contact? We are both losing sleep worrying about this stuff when other people of our age appear to be enjoying retirement. I have never worked so hard or enjoyed life less. The assisted dieing option is looking more appealing all the time.
I am fairly certain most of you have noticed how hard it is to get a French tradesman to do any work. This ranges from actually responding to a request for a devis to actually turning up to do the work within a year of agreeing to do it.
Has anyone found a way to break into the system and get a timely result? I gave up years ago trying to get French professional help, and then tried expat British as an alternative. Mixed results somewhere between poor and competent at mostly exhorbitant prices. Happily I have been healthy enough to say "nuts to it" and do it myself. More recently as I get older and my physical state deteriorates I find I am back at the mercy of outside help. I can no longer lift a bag of cement and sudden twinges of pain and occasional dizzyness makes it a fools errand going up a ladder to fix a leaky roof.
My most recent experience has been with a stonemason and a plumber. Both expats who were reasonable and turned out to be highly skilled. I gave them both a clearly defined list of things I wanted done and they both came when promised and did one thing on the list. Then didn't return to finish. One said he was too busy just at the moment and I have gently reminded him a couple of times. Pretty much the same story with the plumber, who fixed one leak leaving two more leaks unfixed. I have been waiting over two months now.
What is the secret of how to get help? Do I get back in touch offering them double their hourly rate? Do I ask for recommendation of someone else to contact? We are both losing sleep worrying about this stuff when other people of our age appear to be enjoying retirement. I have never worked so hard or enjoyed life less. The assisted dieing option is looking more appealing all the time.